Filiel piety

想起了所有從來沒做過的事

終於有一天，她去世了... 

突然你想起了所有從來沒做過的事， 

它們像榔頭般痛擊著你的心！

這世間不會再有誰會管著你了

這世間不會再有誰會每時每刻地管著你了,管你工作怎麼樣了;管你瘦了還是胖了;管你的身體怎麼樣了;管你吃得好不好;管你睡得好不好……管人是很累的， 誰會願意這樣的去勞累呢， 那還不是父母嗎?

Thinking of mother

 

人的一生你只欠兩個人！

 記住：人的一生你只欠兩個人！

 

 

 

人的一生只欠兩個人的：其一是母親，其二就是父親。「身體髮膚，受之父母」，一個人依託父母來到這個世...

by 佛緣心語

To my Father on Father's Day

Missing my Mother

QingMing 2016

Father, Mother and maternal grandfather's final resting place in Fairy Park, Klang 

QingMing which literally translates as ‘clean and bright’, is the day that Chinese people clean the graves of their ancestors as well as make offerings of food, heaven money, clothing, paper gold nuggets, etc for the ancestors to use in the afterlife, a manifestation of filial piety .

Qing Ming Day falls on the 3rd day of the 3th month in Chinese Lunar calendar or to be exact on the 104th day after the winter solstice and this is usually in the first week of the month of April of the Gregorian Calendar.

As a Muslim convert, I do not participate in the ceremonies but I join my brothers and sisters to visit the grave sites. Mother had left us 18 years ago and Father 3.  I still miss them dearly, especially Mother with whom I was particularly close to.  I  know there are many things I could have done better and many things I should not have done which may have hurt you when you were alive.  I cannot turn the clock back but I can only hope that you will forgive me for all my wrong doings. 

I still cry today